1. Make sure you’re ready
Sure, there’s being financially ready to buy a house (see Step 2 for that). Even if it’s just going to be your starter home, you’re making a big financial commitment and putting down some roots.
You’ll want to think about your other goals for the next few years. Are you buying with a partner, and if yes, are you on the same page when it comes to money? Is there any chance you’d need to relocate for work? Are you thinking of starting a family? These big-picture questions can add to the pros (or cons) of whether this is the right time to buy a house.
2. Get your finances in order
Buying a house may be the biggest financial decision you’ll ever make, so before you take the plunge you want to be sure your finances are solid.
Using a home affordability calculator can help you determine your budget by taking into account your income, debts, location and down payment amount (more on down payments in a moment). You’ll be able to see how your monthly mortgage payments might add up and how your finances could look as a homeowner.
Check your credit score, too. A higher credit score is the single most powerful way to earn a lower mortgage interest rate. Know the mortgage options for your credit score. If your credit score could use some work, it may be worthwhile to hold off on homeownership and see what you can do to build up your score.
3. Make a plan for the down payment
When you’ve determined what you can afford, you can figure out how much you want to save for a down payment. Though 20% down payments used to be the norm, many homeowners opt to put down less. A smaller down payment requires less money upfront, but means you’ll have to pay mortgage insurance. The type of home loan you use also impacts the minimum down payment required.
If this is your first home or if you haven’t owned a house in a while, you may also want to look into state first-time home buyer programs. Many offer financial help, including down payment assistance. Nerdy tip: You’ll want to set aside money for more than just the down payment. Closing costs generally run from 2% to 5% of the total cost of the loan. It’s also a good idea to have some emergency funds in case the home needs unexpected repairs.
4. Create a wish list
See, told you there’d be some fun steps! And coming up with a list of must-haves and nice-to-haves for your house is definitely one of them. Whether you’re looking for a starter home or somewhere you can imagine living for years to come, there are lots of little details, but here are some of the bigger decisions you might make when drawing up your list:
Detached house or attached unit? If you’re all about having a backyard, a traditional single-family home is for you. But if you’re in a more heavily populated area or you don’t want to deal with all that maintenance, buying a condo or townhouse might be your best bet. In some cities, co-ops are also an option.
What’s your ideal location? Assuming you’re staying in state and know the general area where you want to live, now it’s time to choose a neighborhood. Think about factors like safety, amenities (like walkability, green spaces or coffee shops) and costs (which can include property taxes and, if it’s part of a homeowner association, HOA fees). It’s also smart to consider the school district. Even if you don’t plan to have children, school quality can impact the home’s value — and help or hurt your resale price if and when you choose to sell.
Move-in ready or fixer-upper? It doesn’t get easier than purchasing a house where all you need to do is move in. But if you’re in a pricey or otherwise competitive market, taking on a property that needs TLC may help you afford a larger house or get into a costlier neighborhood. With a fixer-upper, you will need to put in the work — and the cash — to make it livable, so make sure you’re up to the challenge.
5. Get preapproved for a mortgage
You know your homebuying budget, and you’ve decided what type of home loan will work for you. Now it’s time to start shopping for a mortgage lender. There are lots of lenders out there, including big brick-and-mortar banks with familiar names, online-only nonbank lenders and smaller, local banks and credit unions that may offer more personalized service.
Working with a lender to get preapproved for a mortgage is an important step in accurately determining your budget. A mortgage preapproval will give you real numbers, since the lender will have detailed info about your finances. That includes a hard inquiry, which will show up on your credit report. The good news: If you apply with multiple lenders around the same time, it’ll only count as one hard pull.
A preapproval letter is typically valid for only 60 to 90 days, after which it will need to be updated. A preapproval letter also shows sellers and real estate agents that you’re a serious buyer who can get financing, which can give you a crucial edge over competing home shoppers. And no, it’s not the same as being pre-qualified — that’s just a rough estimate of what the lender might let you borrow.
6. Find a real estate agent
You’ve got your preapproval in hand and know what kind of house you’re looking for, so let’s find someone to help you look. The right real estate agent can make a huge difference throughout the process of buying a house, from knowing the ins and outs of the local market to providing moral support when the search feels endless to helping you negotiate with a seller.
It’s a good idea to interview at least three agents. Ask people you know who’ve recently bought a home whether they’d recommend their agent. There’s just one hard-and-fast “don’t” here: Don’t use the real estate agent who’s selling the home you’re hoping to buy. You want your own agent who will advocate and negotiate on your behalf.
The buyer’s agent is generally paid a commission by the seller. While you’ll sign a representation agreement with the real estate agent, you won’t be on the hook for paying them.
7. Go shopping!
Yes, this step merits an exclamation point — it’s time to take scrolling through online real estate listings to the next level and actually see some homes in person. Make the most of your walk-through, since you might only see a home once in person before you make an offer — especially in a hot market. Try not to be thrown off by other home shoppers or by the seller’s agent (who may or may not be in attendance).
Take photos with your phone to help jog your memory when you’re deciding whether to make an offer. It might be easy to recall that charming breakfast nook or the extra bedroom that would make a perfect home office, but the aging appliances or decking that needs replacement could be out of sight, out of mind. Potential issues can affect the amount you offer or be things to bring up with a home inspector.
8. Make an offer
Found a home that’s right for you? Now’s the time to make an offer. Your real estate agent can be a tremendous resource here, providing you with comparable sales information and any intel about the sellers they might have gleaned from the selling agent (like if they’ve already found a new place and are extra motivated to sell). You may also want help from a real estate attorney. In some states, a lawyer is required to be part of any real estate transaction.
If the seller rejects your offer, you might make a counteroffer or walk away — it depends on why they turned you down. If the seller counters, talk it out with your agent to decide whether to accept or make your own counteroffer. It’s during these negotiations that a buyer’s agent really earns their keep.
Offer accepted? Congrats! Now you’ve got just a few more steps to go. You’ll also likely write your first check at this point. Earnest money is a deposit you’ll make toward the purchase of the house. It usually goes into an escrow account, and when the sale goes through, most buyers use it as part of their cash to close.
9. Get a mortgage
You know the property you want to buy and how much you’ll have to pay for it. Now you’ll choose a lender to get a mortgage from (you can go with a lender that preapproved you, or start fresh with a different one). Even with an online-first lender, you’ll often work closely with a loan officer to complete the actual application.
Here’s what you’re likely to need:
- W-2 forms from the past two years (possibly more, if you’ve changed employers).
- Pay stubs from the past 30 to 60 days.
- Proof of other sources of income (including documentation of any gift money).
- Federal income tax returns from the past two years.
- Recent bank statements (usually for the last couple of months).
- Details on long-term debts like car or student loans.
- ID and Social Security number.
Once your mortgage application is complete, you’ll go into underwriting. During this process, the lender makes a final decision on whether to give you the loan — it’s basically making sure there’s not anything about the deal that’s just too risky.
Underwriting includes digging deep into your finances, so you may need to come up with even more documents. The lender will also look at the home you’ve chosen via an appraisal (see Step 13 below) and request a title search. Nerdy tip: Underwriting can feel tortuous — you’re ready to close, so what is your lender doing? And during the pandemic, loans are taking longer to close. With many people buying and refinancing, lenders are dealing with a higher volume of loans. At the other end of the spectrum, they’re also working with borrowers who are having difficulty paying their mortgages and need to apply for forbearance. Adhering to state guidelines may also mean that lenders are understaffed, as they may be limited to how many employees can be in offices.
10. Schedule a home inspection and have the home appraised
A basic home inspection can raise issues you might face down the road and point out any necessary repairs. This visual assessment covers all aspects of the house and its systems, from the foundation to the roof. If you have a particular concern, like mold or radon, you may want to get one of the more specialized types of home inspections in addition to a standard inspection.
You choose the home inspector and pay for the home inspection. If it uncovers problems that weren’t included in the seller’s disclosures, you may be able to negotiate with the seller
The home appraisal is completely separate from the home inspection. While the home inspection is for your peace of mind, the appraisal is really for the lender, which doesn’t want to lend you more money than the home is actually worth. An appraisal looks closely at the home you’re buying and at comparable recently sold homes to determine the market value of the property.
Your lender will choose the appraiser, but you’ll pay for the appraisal. (Even if you’re buying a house with cash, you may want to consider hiring an appraiser yourself to be sure about your investment.)
11. Negotiate any repairs or credits with the seller
Though some items, like prorating property taxes or HOA fees, will already have been addressed in your offer letter, you may still have some items to negotiate before closing.
Your ability to negotiate can hinge on what kind of market you’re facing. In a strong seller’s market, it can be difficult to get concessions, since the seller can simply go to their next offer. But if it’s an issue that will come up with any buyer — for example, a necessary repair that will get flagged by any home inspector — you may still have leverage.Nerdy tip: Asking for a credit at closing rather than for the seller to complete needed repairs can help keep the transaction moving. The seller simply rebates you an agreed-upon amount for specific improvements. That can save you a bit of cash at closing, plus handling the repairs yourself (whether DIY or with a pro) ensures the work will be done to your satisfaction.
12. Close on your new home
You’ve finally made it to the last step! Getting familiar with the standard closing documents ahead of time can make the closing process less nerve-wracking.
Your lender must provide you with the closing disclosure at least three days before the actual closing. You can compare it with your Loan Estimate to see whether and how any closing costs have changed. This will let you know how much total cash you’ll need to close.
On or close to closing day, you’ll do a final walk-through with your real estate agent. You’ll probably be buzzing with excitement, but make sure to check that everything’s as agreed upon (for example, that all the appliances that are supposed to be included in the sale are still there).
It’s been a whirlwind of emotion and seemingly endless paperwork, not to mention that you may have just written the biggest check of your life — but now you’re getting the keys to your new home. Congratulations, you did it!
Enjoy!
